My husband Todd and I had 2 biological children who were busy in school and had active church, social, and sports schedules. An outsider would have thought we looked content as we had every reason to be. However, I often felt a “nudge” to add to our family, even though it didn’t make sense to do so. After all, we were busy and life was full! Todd and I enjoyed our time with Emma and Andrew and our extended family and friends.
Sometime in 2004, I became tuned in to the plight of orphans around the world and began looking for what I could do to contribute. I decided to be a monthly sponsor to a child through a humanitarian agency; and for awhile that satisfied my need to help. Eventually, I found myself tuning into articles, books, and television programs devoted to orphan adoptions. In 2005, I looked in to international adoption, and paid hundreds of dollars to a large Christian adoption agency so that I could receive their information packet. I couldn’t even communicate with anyone in person from that agency until I had paid for this packet. Their contract required a large up front sum of money with NO guarantee that an adoption would be successfully completed. In the event of a failed adoption, any money from us would be applied to their mission work.
To us, this was unacceptable! We knew that a failed adoption would be extremely stressful and not fair to our children who were then 9 and 12 years old. We assumed all agencies would have this type of contract, so we found ourselves waiting and wondering what the right decision for our family would be. Life continued to be wonderful as long as we kept busy!
However, the nudge continued and “adoption” became the most used word around our home. On my daughter Emma’s 13th birthday, she said she didn’t want to hear anymore about it unless we were seriously going to do it. The little nudge became a kick in the pants! We began our homestudy process in June 2007 still very unsure of which agency to choose. We felt no particular allegiance to any country...just to a child in need of a family. Our prayers were answered when our social worker gave us a very short list of agencies which she had heard only positive feedback. Alaska International Adoption Agency (AIA) seemed to jump off the page.
That same day we emailed Olga Byrnes and she called us immediately. She was so easy to talk to about the process. She took the time to share her history, address our concerns, understand our family’s needs, and settle our uncertainties. It was a great phone call that let us know we were on the right path!
The AIA contract was simple and easy to understand. Olga took the time to discuss the adoption process with us and answered all of our questions in a timely manner. We joined AIA’s weekly online Chat (a support group of other families who have completed or are in the process of adoption) and we began to see a common theme—each family was happy with the AIA process from beginning to end.
The AIA staff who assisted our needs in Moscow and Magadan were very professional. It became apparent that they work under very tight government regulations and have to meet strict time constraints to ensure the adoption process stays on schedule. We were impressed with Andrei and Zoya’s abilities to quickly address and accommodate any changing paperwork needs while in-country to keep our process on schedule. We came to fully appreciate AIA’s professionalism while we were at the American Embassy in Moscow listening to the other families discuss their agencies. We were the only family that had no complaints! The other families told tales of schedule delays, unprocessed paperwork, travel dilemmas, long in-country stays, visa/medical problems. Looking back at our adoption process, we can clearly see that the AIA staff was quietly working our case through the Russian system, addressing any problems or changes in advance of our arrival to ensure a seamless process once we were in country.
In summary, AIA performed flawless during our adoption process. All aspects of the process were performed on-time, on-budget, and in a compassionate and ethical fashion.
It was an easy and right relationship from the onset and that never changed through the entire 9 months we worked them.
By the way, we did bring home two healthy delightful siblings who have added an extra dimension of joy to our family! Our nudges coincided with their need…and we have all been so enriched by this experience. Please feel free to contact us at 318-965-1965 should you have any questions about our adoption journey with AIA. |